Dreams

A Woman’s Smile

Morning Word
The best thing a woman can wear is her smile. Not her make-up; Not her eye liner, Not her lipstick and not even her favorite outfit can top that. Wearing happiness on her face can change another person’s whole day. There is so much power behind the smile of a woman. It has the power to heal, motivate and encourage. And if a woman’s smile has that much power, Imagine what her words can do.
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Men Opening Up, Part II

“Men Opening Up Part II”
The second major reason why men may have a problem opening up is “heartbreak”. When a man has loved a woman deeply and for whatever reason that woman decides to- betray him, cheat on him or end the relationship out of the blue, that pain can cause a man to close himself off from expressing himself even more. Sometimes the pain can be so deep and so heavy, we don’t trust putting ourselves out there all the way because we don’t want to experience that situation ever again. We begin to live behind these invisible brick walls trying to prevent pain and heartbreak from reaching us. It may not sound wise but it sounds like a place of comfort for any man who is generally bad with dealing with his broken emotions. The longer we live behind these invisible brick walls, the further and further we get from feeling anything real again. However getting over this pain is not impossible. All things can get better with time if we learn not to become prisoners of our past. Time heals all wounds and can make us better lovers as men if we apply ourselves in the right way and change our outlook. Letting go of pain isn’t easy to do, but it isn’t impossible either.
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Men Opening Up, Part I

“Men Opening Up, Part I”
Often times you may hear a woman say,”I wish you opened up more. I wish you would tell me what it is you are thinking and feeling.” There are two major reasons why many men may have problems with opening up so I’ll speak on both. I genuinely believe that most men would love to connect with women on a deeper level emotionally. However, one of the major reasons we have a problem doing that is because we were never really taught how to. When most of us were young (meaning before the age of 18) we were taught to never show weakness. We were told to never show emotions and that if we did that would mean that we were soft. For most of us, when we were young we learned about the positives behind being tough, but no one showed us the positives behind being vulnerable. We learned the importance of protecting and providing for our women, but expressing ourselves often times was an area that continued to go underdeveloped. Most men are very repetitious in their behavioral patterns. We tend to stick to what we know. It doesn’t make us bad, it just means that we are set in our ways. We can’t give a woman openness if we have no clue on what it is or how to tap into it. But even though some of us never developed this quality, there is still light at the end of the tunnel. A man can get better with expressing himself and being more open if he has a woman who can be patient and help him move forward with the process. The right woman for the right man can help him grow more than he ever thought possible.
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Dating

Morning Word
Dating is a place where two adults set out to discover each other’s suitability for marriage. It’s where you go out to see who is compatible with you emotionally, mentally and spiritually. This is the beginning of where you learn about similarities and differences with each other. It’s two complete people looking for someone else they can spend the rest of their life with. It’s not a place for broken people to find healing at the expense of someone else’s time and energy. It’s not a place where you seek out someone to save you from bad decisions you have made in your personal life. It’s not a place where you infect people with your depression by passing your pain along. It’s a place where you both seek to bring value to each other’s life because you truly want to be happy.
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Love Love

Morning Word
I just love “love”. I love having pictures I can stare at throughout different times of the day. I love having quality time filled with deep conversations and slow ass rubs. I love talking about our wounds and how we both have grown a lot stronger and wiser. I love having my best friend. Someone I can quote random movies lines with at the same time. I love us being each other’s medicine through laughter. I love making new memories while planning towards a brighter future. I love knowing without a doubt that I have a true rider in my corner. Someone who will help me keep it together when I am truly lost or frustrated. I love the peace I get behind the power of “knowing” I’ve finally found my missing piece. I love being cared about and having someone that I can truly care for. I love beginning my day with someone, getting through my day with someone and finally ending my day with that same person. I just love “love”.
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Queens Aren’t Replaceable

Morning Word
All she really wants is for you to never lose sight of her significance in the relationship. Queens aren’t replaceable. You can’t just lose a Queen, go out and find another woman, and plug her into doing the things only your Queen could do for you. Every woman doesn’t have the skill set your Queen has. Every woman can’t put you together and help you grow like your Queen can. Every woman can’t deal with the bullshit that you put your Queen through when she has had plenty of opportunities to leave. You so busy disrespecting her and the relationship behind her back, that you are forgetting the fact that there are still men out here praying to be in her presence. Don’t lose the best thing you ever had dealing with women who can’t bring out the best in you. Cherish the woman you have. Start kissing her with passion again like you can’t live without her. Start listening more and paying more attention to her so she will never feel neglected again. Women need to feel like that are wanted and that they matter. And it’s on you to show her that.
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She Never Thought 2

Morning Word
She never thought that relationships could be this easy. Before she met you, all she knew was stress, drama and games. Never in a million years did she think she would meet a man committed to her growth just like his. It’s rare to meet someone committed to helping you live a healthier lifestyle. It’s rare to meet someone you can grow with spiritually and emotionally. She could talk to you about anything. And the fact that you were wise beyond your years, made you like her personal oracle whenever her matrix was out of place. You were different. Most men were only able to speak to her flesh. But you were the first man to ever speak to her spirit.
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She Never Thought

Morning Word
She never thought that you would be the man to lower her guard. She never thought that you would be the man to pull things out of her that she has never felt before. Every since meeting you, she has found herself looking at the world in a new way. She has found herself feeling a lot more confident in the things that she can accomplish. It just made sense for her to let you inside emotionally because everything just felt right, but she would be lying if she told you that it didn’t scare her because her emotions and logic are hardly ever on the same page. You were ushered into her life as a beautiful blessing in the middle of her nightmares. And even though she loved her independence, she has found herself growing a lot more dependent on your positive energy and how you make her feel on the inside. You were the man she has been waiting for.
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