When I hear the word “Relationship”, What comes to mind to Me is, Two people relating with each other while taking a journey towards happiness in the same ship. And if you are not careful, You can find yourself sinking to the bottom with the wrong person. You might even find yourself in the middle of the ocean fighting for something when mentally the other person has jumped ship a long time ago. I think it’s very important that you take your time hopping in the next ship with someone. Couples travel towards happiness together more smoothly when they have established the same rhythm rowing with each other. When you both can have the same rhythm with your eyes focused on the same destination, You begin to work together in unison more effectively. Nothing is more exhausting than putting in time and effort with someone rowing in the opposite direction as you.
Don’t let someone’s inability to love you correctly, Make you second guess yourself into feeling like you don’t deserve better. Proverbs 4:23 says, “Above all else, Guard your heart, For everything you do flows from it”.
Your heart is the most important thing you have in your life. That’s why it is on you to protect the pearls you have inside of you and keep evil and hurt out. Everything flows from it; Your mood, How productive you are that day, How you interact with people, Everything you do comes from the heart. And for you to transition from broken to better, It’s going to require you to make some very hard decisions in your life, Especially if you want to get back to having peace in your spirit. Sometimes we can be in a draining relationship for so long that, By the time we finally come out of it we have completely lost identity of ourselves. But that is ok though, We all are imperfect human beings. And sometimes someone has to break you before the best version of you comes to the surface…
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You cant have who you want and who you need at the same time. The person you want might only feel good for the body. But the person you need just may feel good for the soul. And when you are investing your time in someone, You should only want to be around the person who can give you the biggest return on love back to your heart. Ever been in love with someone just to find out they dont have all their chips in the middle just like you do? When you make better investments, You experience better results.
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