At the end of the day, we just want someone we can see ourselves grow with. A good example of a future mother or father is enough for us to give you a chance. And if we already have children, we just want someone who can be the proper role model and share the right kind of influences that we already share with our children. We are not dating because we are bored. We are not dating to pass time by. We are dating with the intent of being well off for the rest of our life with someone special. And even though things didn’t work out with people in our past, some of us still believe in that forever kind of love.