What if I told you that the person who hurt you years ago, has already moved on with their life? What if I told you that the only reason why you can’t produce fruitful relationships with anyone is because you are still invisibly chained to someone who isn’t in your life anymore? Some of you have given so much power to the people in your past, you can’t even see how badly it has affected you. Do you have a right to feel betrayed? Of course you do. Do you have a right to feel like they took advantage of you? Absolutely. Are you entitled to grieve about it and cry for a little while? Yes you have that right. But at some point, you have to start moving on with your life. You can’t keep looking back at the person who left. You can’t keep dwelling on a past relationship that you can’t do anything about. You can’t keep putting yourself through pain by reopening old wounds. Pick yourself back up. Dust your heart back off. And then move the hell on with your life so that you can get back to enjoying “you” again.