The foundation of love and happiness begins with you. You can’t build something solid with someone else if you are still cracking and breaking on the inside. You will get the most out of love when you start bringing the best version of yourself to the table. Your partner will need you just like you need them. Your partner needs your emotional stability just like you need theirs. Your partner needs your wisdom and positive influence just like you will need it from them. Being in love is sharing the best version of yourself so that you both can rub off on each other and help each other grow. It’s unfair to demand that you need certain things from your partner when you can’t even produce the same fruit in return. A better individual, will make an even better partner when in a relationship.