When you take time discovering who you are as a person, simultaneously you will end up figuring out the kind of person that you need in your life. When you don’t know who you are, chances are you will never know who you are searching for. You can’t figure out who you need without figuring out who you are first. Search your heart for clarity and understanding. Compare what it is you want out of life versus what it is you really need out of life. Instead of running away from your solitude, you should be growing more comfortable inside of it. When you know who you are and can identify the things that you love about yourself and about life, then you should look for the kind of person that can reflect that.