At the end of the day, you just want someone who you can build a life with. Someone who supports you not just when the sun is out but when it rains as well. The older you get, the more you end up looking for more solid things to have in your next relationship. You want someone who you can take road trips with to new states, so you both can get lost in making new memories together. You want someone responsible who you can raise children with that can help you pass on certain values and lessons. You want someone who you can talk to in the middle of the night when your doubts seem to get the best of you. You want a best friend that you can trust inside of your relationship. The kind of best friend that won’t always tell you what you want to hear and will give you tough love and be honest with you. You want a bond that will never be broken or penetrated by the outside influences of other people. You want a life partner and not a night partner.