You should have the kind of relationship with someone that allows you the freedom to talk about anything on your mind. You will be surprised at how many relationships could have been saved if one person would have just opened up about how they truly felt about a situation. Just because someone loves you deeply, it does not mean that they can read your mind. If your mate is doing something or has done something that does not sit right with you, tell them how you really feel and give them the opportunity to make adjustments so that things can be right again. If you are with someone that cares, they will do everything in their power to help get things back on track. If you are with someone that doesn’t care, your concerns will go in one ear and out the other and nothing will change in their behavior. But whatever you do, don’t continue to punish the person you are with, if you haven’t given them the opportunity to make any real changes.